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Up to date: November 29, 2020 9:39:29 am
Marriage to champion archer Deepika Kumari – reckons fellow worldwide Atanu Das – goes to be a complete lot of truth-telling in coming years. Even bitter truths. “Kadva sach.” Particularly, bitter truths.
Like how, Deepika’s unimaginable focus – (“She’s sensible. She’ll see solely the goal like within the Arjuna story,” he says) – has its dire downsides. That taut single-pivot of her focus, aside from filling her with intense nervousness and dread on the massive stage, additionally means she fails to note issues across the goal which matter – “the time left, the flags, how swift are the winds. She doesn’t discover any of it. She simply goes for it!” he says as the 2 resume their aggressive journeys, beginning with nationwide trials.
Factoring within the situations is integral to success in a sport the place archers are identified to shoot for giant medals even in windy rains, and Das believes Deepika might put in additional work than she does, and take that further second to course of the entire image earlier than firing her arrows.
Whereas fully in awe of how sharp and unwavering the previous World No 1 and World Cup winner’s focus will be, Das says the couple trades recommendations on one another’s robust factors within the sport. “She’s informed me she likes my capturing stance. I maintain asking her about what psychological framework is required to be on the high. She’s been a World No 1, I haven’t,” he defined earlier because the duo wrapped up their coaching camp at Pune’s Military Sports activities Institute.
The pair of archers, him 28 and her 26, tied the knot in June earlier after having identified one another for 12 years, six of which Atanu is accused by Deepika of getting spent, “not speaking” to her. “Pakki dushmani thi,” she remembers, in a mock scoff. Title something potential that might go improper in a relationship and Deepika says, all of these did: “misunderstandings, communication hole, two large egos.” Batch mates on the Tata Academy in 2008 once they began, Deepika remembers not attending to know him in any respect initially. “He didn’t know Hindi then, so he wouldn’t speak to me.”
They’d proceed to shoot in combined workforce occasions and apply alongside however in 2011, they formally fought. “We should’ve performed our first internationals on the similar time and had the identical objectives and ambitions,” Atanu remembers. “However random, infantile fights blew up. Kuchh bhi cheez pe bachpanaa tha. One thing as small as ‘why did you’re taking my bottle of water?….” Neither knew what had snapped, neither was keen to relent.
2017, they’d reconnect, and swiftly fall in love. “2018, we out of the blue determined. Shortly households have been additionally knowledgeable, so it grew to become a love-cum-arranged marriage,” Deepika says, two years after each had headed to the Olympics, with the frustration nonetheless uncooked on sure triggers.
The highlight of being a precocious expertise and pressures of expectation have all the time unsettled Deepika, rendering her a tad high-strung. Reminding her of earlier Olympics – disappointing campaigns after a hyped build-up – nonetheless leaves her prickly. “Why do you media need to all the time evaluate this with earlier occasions?” she asks. However she’s pleasantly at peace with all of the uncertainty of this yr with the pandemic suspending the Video games, and her pragmatism has rubbed off on Atanu too.
“In the course of the lockdown, we’d see on social media how international rivals had arrange apply ranges of their compounds. We have been in India, our Coronavirus scenario was totally different. And we don’t have these large backyards. That doesn’t imply that when the time comes subsequent yr, we won’t be pretty much as good as them,” she states with confidence. “We all know how good our stage is. We’ll see them in competitors.”
The self perception has all the time been there. The poise and a lightness of being – she laughs out loudly and freely, jokes about her shortcomings when she shoots – is new. “Atanu may be very calm and composed as an individual, and affected person with others. No stress, no worry. Sport (type) can go up and down. However he doesn’t change or cease being caring. I’m studying that,” she says.
The enforced lockdown which pinned the duo to their house publish marriage, performed its half in calming Deepika down. Meals set the tone, she remembers. “My in-laws had by no means tasted pancakes,” Deepika says of the superbly flipped and browned breakfast routine, she’d picked up on her worldwide excursions over time. “I actually admire Bengali meals, so I helped in preparations. However I used to be very blissful once they preferred the pancakes which they hadn’t tried earlier than, and pasta and dosa I made for them,” she remembers.
Priming for trials and qualification meets in Might, coaching had abruptly halted in March. “Olympics obtained postponed, so we determined we might get married after World Championships. However every part was so unsure there was no level in long-term plans. Marriage throughout pandemic was dangerous, however we did all we might to maintain it small, intimate and comply with all security measures,” Atanu says. “Perhaps for our mother and father it was powerful to maintain it so restricted, however we put our foot down.”
Lockdown introduced its broth of feelings. “It’s troublesome for sports activities individuals as a result of max, we’re used to being house for per week or 10 days. Right here we might do nothing and it was irritating. However on the similar time, so many migrants have been struggling to achieve house and there have been tragic deaths. Atleast we have been secure. So we knew we have been lucky whereas so many others suffered,” he says.
Not a lot was achieved when it comes to health at house then, he confesses, besides distracted yoga and meditation. Then routine set in. “I’d assist out within the kitchen and make hen curry at occasions, play Name of Responsibility and dance when bored. We’d take turns to broom the home. And simply remind ourselves, we have been fortunate to get to spend time with household,” Atanu says.
Deepika discovered the mundane repetitions in sweeping the ground therapeutic, she says laughing, about coping with her boredom, so out of the blue after she’d psyched herself as much as assist India’s ladies’s recurve workforce, qualify – the problem hangs like a sword once more. She’d permit the destiny of her Raagi dosa on any given morning, resolve how blissful she’d really feel. “Atanu by no means preferred Raagi dosa. So I grew to become obsessive about making him prefer it,” she says of her fiddle.
The bow strings and arrow fletches in the meantime fell into disuse. “Ghar ka khana thoos thoos ke khaaya. Naturally, standing, capturing capability and adaptability went for a toss! Out of the blue soles of the toes and legs harm the primary few weeks once we returned. Again ki band baj jaati hai. Energy points have been large. However all this meant once we resumed in Pune, motivation was excessive to get again to earlier type,” she explains.
First got here bow-control, one thing Deepika had by no means reckoned she’d have to re-learn. “Re-familiarising the physique with what capturing looks like took 14 days,” she remembers. It was additionally the time Pune was being lashed with rains each night. “My sport doesn’t cease for the rains,” she laughs. “It causes a variety of issues. Water can fill into strings and make them behave otherwise. Additionally if it’s raining, you are likely to divert consideration from method to the arrow,” she explains. These classes when it rained helped her crystallise a pondering and technical course of to take care of a scenario that’s given her loads of grief earlier.
It might additionally assist her perceive the workforce dynamic in what’s a medal occasion, and assist her assume past herself. “Ofcourse we shoot individually. However a medal solely comes if everybody clicks. Coordination and understanding companions and teammates is important. You must be calm and know everybody’s temperament – some workforce members are cool underneath stress, some are little scared, others are very scared!” she says. “I’ve been all three.”
She was made conscious to smash her self-absorbed competitors bubble by Atanu. “Teamwork in archery goes and accumulating others’ arrows. And placing a superb working equation with teammates in addition to coach, masseurs and even the prepare dinner within the coaching camp kitchen. They’re additionally the workforce. That persistence to look past personal type is vital,” he says.
Atanu observed his physique change form as he placed on the kilos in 6 months, and paid for the gluttony on return to coaching. “It was simply 3-4 kgs extra weight, nevertheless it might destroy bow management and there was physique ache in first two weeks. 100/200m runs mein haalat kharaab ho jaati thi. Once you maintain a bow, although poundage and vibration are the identical, there’s a break in rhythm and muscle mass begin feeling heavy. Operating, flexibility is completed. You run a kilometre and you are feeling, bhaiyya, let hello jaate hai!” he remembers.
Atanu would watch Deepika decide up coaching tempo together with her common single-mindedness and gape at her means to deal with the game as soon as once more. Just like the flick of a change. He reckons he’s fortunate he can study all about psychological technique of climbing again to World No 1 – he’ll merely ask her. After which brace himself for trustworthy unvarnished suggestions on precisely what all is missing in his effort.
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